How To Be Confident

By Shawn S. Nguyen


The aim of most high school students is to be popular; they will do anything they can to make sure they're recognized among many people. However, being popular isn't easy. Being popular doesn't simply mean having good looks. There are many qualities that make people popular. Luckily, here are some simple methods that will help you on your path to becoming a popular student.The first thing to know about popular kids is that they don't necessarily have to have good looks, but instead they have some other qualities that attract people to them. Popular kids are usually friendly with everyone without preference. They also have confidence, which is an important trait to have despite who you are.
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BE FRIENDLY: You must be polite with every single student! If you want to become popular at college and want people to be nice to you, you can not afford to be harsh with them no matter who they are. One bad impression can ruin everything for you. People are naturally attracted to others who smile a lot and are positive, so no matter how down you get try to smile at others and greet them. Always be positive since people always like an optimistic personality. Never talk bad about the people EVER! even if they are not present as they will not appreciate hearing about it from someone else. Listen and Talk to people and help them out if they have ANY kind of problems.

Another thing you can do is to simply go out there and socialize with people. If it's your first time talking to that person, don't make the topic something personal. Try to stick to a general topic. This helps you get to know the other person easily and connect some bridges by sharing with each other you have something in common. As you get to know the person better, they'll introduce you to their other friends and your circle of friends will increase.Another thing about popular people is that they aren't greedy. They will help people when they see someone in need. The really popular people will even sacrifice their own time to help others out. They are very selfless and do whatever they can. You can go out and start helping out in your school or community. People will start noticing you and will come up and talk to you.

People are sick of others who lie. People want to be friends with someone who is real, truthful and honest.Be funny. People like funny people, simple. People like comedians, they go to their shows, buy their dvd's. Comedians take people's mind off their own problems. If you are naturally funny, use your gift. One thing I will say is try and make yourself the butt of jokes; if you don't know someone and your making fun of them you may get a punch in the mouth for your troubles.

Becoming a popular student is perhaps easy at school but college is a larger society and thus fulfilling your desire of becoming popular at college maybe an arduous task but I guess if you follow the tips I have mentioned above you may become an extremely popular student!




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