How To Get Along With Your Neighbors

By David H. Brewster


Unlike communities' centuries ago, our neighbors nowadays are less likely to be family and often connections are difficult to establish. People seem reclusive and are not part of a local ecosystem. Their concerns seem to center around lives of the rich or famous or American Icon rather than anyone or any person in their direct vicinity. Neighborhoods today could be made up of people with different cultural and economic backgrounds. Therefore, you can be surprised how a simple gesture and behavior could lead to a huge misunderstanding following an acute disagreement.

Its a fact of geography, civil engineering & town planning that adjacent neighbors are facts of modern life and lifestyles . Some people are lucky to have "quiet-often not at home neighbors" which is equivalent of not having neighbors at all. However, other homeowners are stuck with the not-so-good neighbors, who are hard to deal with even during a holy Sunday morning. Most often than not, our neighbors especially those not so good ones are the primary reason why we build fences, this happens after a toilsome discussion or rather argument that we had regarding our issue with our neighbors.

Other than cultural, personal, and other noted differences, setting property lines and boundaries among neighbors tend to create numerous arguments. If you are planning to install a fence, it's a good idea to ask each neighbor from every side for their opinions regarding how your plans would affect theirs. Through that, you can assure your good relationship with your neighbors and have the fence you want as well. There are certain regulations that should be followed in building a fence, be sure to check your state and local regulations regarding this matter. Following the rules would protect you from any legality issues that your neighbor might complain. In some areas, neighbors are required to share the cost of the planned property line fence. If you properly discuss it with your neighbors, you might be surprised that they are interested on you beautification project.

In case the fence is owned by two parties that is you and your neighbor, it's best to consult your neighbor about your plans regarding the fence. You might assume that your neighbor does not want to pay his part with the fence renovation but you'll never confirm your negative assumptions unless you try. Besides, you have to inform them anyway because half of the fence is owned by them. It's one way of expressing respect which you as person demands too.

Prepare with an estimated amount of the whole project, in case they're interested to know. If they didn't show any concern, it is best to leave it that way. It is better to preserve a good relationship with your neighbors than create a conflict by pressing the issue. Besides living harmoniously with the people around you, considering years of staying, is more important than a having a beautiful fence.




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