It is frustrating when your trust is violated by the therapist you thought would be the source of solace and good health. Common acts that should raise alarm include control, manipulation and exploitation. You should consider it therapy abuse if the things you will be engaged in are not in your best interest. A feeling of dependency beyond professional level should alert you that something is wrong.
Problems arise when dual relationships develop in the course of treatment. While the opinion and guidance of therapists is appreciated, it must respect professional ethics and boundaries. Adults are as vulnerable to abuse as children. Victims should take quick action to stop the situation from escalating. Alternative treatment is required lest the victim suffers due to confidence crisis.
Violation may come from either a male or female therapist. Sexual exploitation is the most common form of abuse. Violation has caused many victims to be admitted into hospitals because of depression. Others have attempted suicide while a significant percentage has succeeded. This points at the need to take quick and decisive action.
To avoid or limit abuse, professionals suggest that you follow your gut feelings. This means that, if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong and requires review. Seek the assistance of another therapist or confide in a person you trust. This helps you clarify if the procedure is right and whether it will deliver desired results.
There are behaviors that will signal unprofessional conduct. A therapist who discusses other clients, his personal life or uncomfortable topics is likely to be abusive. If you feel hurt or violated during the initial sessions, it is time to quit. This will ensure that the situation does not get out of hand.
A session with your therapist should not result in a feeling of shame, intimidation, degradation or humiliation. It is supposed to lead to healing and relief. Therapists who make suggestive and erotic comments should be avoided. Acts like winking, kissing, hugging or sexual intercourse are abusive.
A therapist should not pressure you to make any decision or engage in an act that makes you feel uncomfortable. Calls, emails, text messages or meetings outside the office indicate unprofessional behavior and point to abusive relationships. Attention needs to be on your personality and achievements other than your dressing or looks. Comments like you are beautiful and sexy are the first steps towards abuse.
A therapist must maintain professional distance. Your vulnerability is likely to blind you into his or her trap. Focus should never shift to him instead of his professional services. The procedure should be standardized instead of appearing like only him or her has the solution to your problem. Do not feel anxious whenever you miss a session. If any anxiety crops up, it should be natural.
Parents, spouses and close friends remain your solace in case you are violated. Support organizations have setup resourceful websites to assist victims and offer directions. A change of therapist is recommended at the earliest opportunity. There are legal channels to seek redress including contacting your attorney, reporting to the professional body that regulates therapists and making a statement to the police. There is no violation that is too insignificant to be ignored.
Problems arise when dual relationships develop in the course of treatment. While the opinion and guidance of therapists is appreciated, it must respect professional ethics and boundaries. Adults are as vulnerable to abuse as children. Victims should take quick action to stop the situation from escalating. Alternative treatment is required lest the victim suffers due to confidence crisis.
Violation may come from either a male or female therapist. Sexual exploitation is the most common form of abuse. Violation has caused many victims to be admitted into hospitals because of depression. Others have attempted suicide while a significant percentage has succeeded. This points at the need to take quick and decisive action.
To avoid or limit abuse, professionals suggest that you follow your gut feelings. This means that, if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong and requires review. Seek the assistance of another therapist or confide in a person you trust. This helps you clarify if the procedure is right and whether it will deliver desired results.
There are behaviors that will signal unprofessional conduct. A therapist who discusses other clients, his personal life or uncomfortable topics is likely to be abusive. If you feel hurt or violated during the initial sessions, it is time to quit. This will ensure that the situation does not get out of hand.
A session with your therapist should not result in a feeling of shame, intimidation, degradation or humiliation. It is supposed to lead to healing and relief. Therapists who make suggestive and erotic comments should be avoided. Acts like winking, kissing, hugging or sexual intercourse are abusive.
A therapist should not pressure you to make any decision or engage in an act that makes you feel uncomfortable. Calls, emails, text messages or meetings outside the office indicate unprofessional behavior and point to abusive relationships. Attention needs to be on your personality and achievements other than your dressing or looks. Comments like you are beautiful and sexy are the first steps towards abuse.
A therapist must maintain professional distance. Your vulnerability is likely to blind you into his or her trap. Focus should never shift to him instead of his professional services. The procedure should be standardized instead of appearing like only him or her has the solution to your problem. Do not feel anxious whenever you miss a session. If any anxiety crops up, it should be natural.
Parents, spouses and close friends remain your solace in case you are violated. Support organizations have setup resourceful websites to assist victims and offer directions. A change of therapist is recommended at the earliest opportunity. There are legal channels to seek redress including contacting your attorney, reporting to the professional body that regulates therapists and making a statement to the police. There is no violation that is too insignificant to be ignored.
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