Fight And Overcome Your Daily Dread

By Janine Hughes


All of us have some weakness deep inside us. We get frustrated, afraid, and worry of things we cannot handle and have complete control. When confronted with unimaginable problems be it involved life searching, losing someone, reaching a dream, or absence of money we usually tend to fight them. This is a natural response that is to survive at all cost.

There are several methods or techniques in order to help you out of trouble. When you are facing the daily dread, you need to divert your attention and do some productive activities. Acceptance is the hardest part of the journey but with enough support group and love from the people around you, the process will be easy.

It is a matter of controlling your mind over your emotions. Emotions are traitors. It can break, distract, and hurt you a lot. You have to be honest with yourself first and think about your past actions. Rewind them in your head. Think of the decisions you chose and totally wrong. Each action correspond every consequence. This will take long and lots of patience required.

Courage occurs because of our fears. When we start fighting them off, the result is unstoppable courage. Having a partner or someone who hang on to is good. Sharing of fears and sadness will make you feel you are not alone. Better write down the fears you have and write the solutions. Be sure that your solutions are doable.

Speaking of doubts, you need to understand that this is a step by step process. There is no easy way or a shortcut unless you are very determined. Like we know that everything is in our minds. If you have that control, you can be anything you want. Most people believe that in all you do, decide with yourself and never do it for others because they say so.

The painful truth about regret is that time continuous and mistakes will be left engraved in hard stone and you will think of them as your lesson. People we usually look up to are those men and women who overcome their greatest fears and they look beyond the imperfections. It is very difficult to be grateful when everything seems so wrong.

We must solve our own trouble. You can't blame other people due to your own wrong doings. People might have pushed you to do bad things but decision is still yours to make. The ball is right in your hands. You let it slipped and your life is over. People will do everything to break you and hurt you. Your self is your only friend.

Some go crazy, literally crazy. Get some help from a psychiatrist and undergo counseling and medication program that will take months or even years. At least, these people are trying to help their selves out of that pit. Well, some prefer to focus their attention with their faith and trust God from above to do miracles.

Always believe in yourself. There is nothing impossible because it is possible in your mind. You are the master of your own and be strong.




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